Happiness This Way

Connection: The Secret of Happiness

What are we looking for?

There are many things to do in our life.

But have we ever thought about why we do what we can do? What are we really seeking?

Now the world is filled with thousands of millions of us comes from different races, countries, religions and beliefs all doing different things. They all look different and act very differently. We have different interests and attitudes of others. We communicate differently often using different languages. We have the desire and different feelings.

However, if we were to say that there is only one thing we all seek, what would it be?

When traveling around the world, I often ask people a simple question: "What do you achieve in your life? What you really want?"

At first it seemed that everyone was looking for different things as random, he said, "Good job", "My home", a "friendly partner," A loving family, "" A fellow the soul, "" More money "," Wealth. "" Freedom "," Peace of Mind "," About Life " … There were many more responses.

In fact, I realized that some of these things are temporary desires and wishes some are more permanent. Temporary means We wish him because we have not yet, otherwise I do not think we yet. Moreover, the continuing desire is not reach for things that do not have. It is feeling "wanted so this is not over no matter what we have or achieve in every moment of our lives.

Take away all temporal desires list and only looked at the permanent desire, is so obvious that we just want to keep feeling positive emotions like excitement, enjoyment, inspiration, motivation, generosity, love, joy, etc. "In other words, we want to remain happy.

Happiness

Happiness is an emotional state we are all wanting to be inside of us may define it differently. It is possible that the assessed differently. We can experiment with different levels of intensity. But surely have something in common when happiness comes to us. And when one discovers the secret of happiness, we have the power to be happier and make others around us experience the same feeling too.

Life is a mystery that we all live in. It is possible that we all love our special way. You may despise different ways. You may be questioned. We treasure. Or maybe you have it, they accept with indifference. But what is the purpose of our lives? What if the secret of our existence is so close? What if the secret really brings us happiness and joy when we discover?

What if the secret of our intention of life and happiness is as simple as this:

This is the connection on.

The connection is all that

Everything is connected. It's all part of everything else. If you look at our own lives, says it all. Then begin to see the true purpose of our life.

Why do we do something, nothing in life as human beings?

It is simply because we want to connect more, and more. We feel connected friends. We marry to connect with someone more thoroughly and more permanently. We create a family feel even more connected. We went out to meet more people to contact, not only to achieve practical benefits of the connections, but also to feel more connected to the world.

Buy nice clothes and go to a hair stylist feel more connected to our sense of aesthetics and our physical beauty. We eat a variety of foods that they feel more connected to our sense of taste and of smell. Dinner to feel connected with people who share meals with. Buy mobile phones and computers to connect with others and the world. We read the newspapers and magazines to stay connected to what is happening and what others are doing and feeling. We study and learn to connect what others know and value.

Everything we do is meet the need for connection. If we are not connected to our own body, do not even have to eat and sleep. Our connection with our sense tells us to do something to meet the demand of the body. We feel pain and discomfort if we ignore the signs of our own body. And beyond our needs core, we seek a greater sense of connection. The connection to our existence. Connection for our purpose. And without that sense, is empty. Like void that many of us feel inside when we are not connected, even to ourselves. That simply can not be the natural way we're designed to live our lives.

The connection is powerful, yet fragile and tender …

When we can not feel the sense of connection in a relationship, we go for separation, divorce, arguments, the trial and resentment. Never feels good to feel disconnected. But he could still feel in love with someone one day and feel completely remote and resentful with the same person the next day. The feeling can change with the flick of a finger. And it could be your finger or yours!

When we feel disconnected …

When we do not feel the connection, we begin to see problems. We started seeing the differences and barriers. We begin to judge and criticize others. We magnify, dwell on the energy and give the things we perceive as problems. When that happens, we might even turn everything inward and give us the pain and criticism. We can not be totally happy when we feel disconnected from one thing.

Connection: The Secret of Happiness

What if we look at the concept in reverse? When we do this, we found this simple truth: we can not feel unhappy when we feel totally connected. It is impossible!

Try to feel unhappy when we feel connected with people around us, laughing and sharing together wholeheartedly. Even when we have the so-called "problems" in life, we can still laugh together and feel happy and positive when we feel connected. At the same time, it is very difficult to enjoy anything if you do not feel connected.

Connection: Our Life

The connection is the core of everything. That's what life is. Connection.

Everything is just a collection of smaller parts. Everything is interconnected to form a larger unit: how our bodies are collections of smaller parts, organs, cells, atoms and molecules.

Our actions and decisions and also express the need for connection. We are designed to constantly seek ways to connect with each other and with a purpose higher.

Connection and Religion

Some of us choose to be part of different religions to feel more connected. The requested connection could be to God. Could be people with the same belief. When we share the same belief, it creates a stronger sense of connection within that group. More giving occurs naturally among people who feel connected.

Business Connection

Many people start businesses become more connected to themselves by being in charge of their own destiny. But often in the business world, we end up feeling more and more isolated, especially when we begin to perceive other companies as competitors, staff and the tools and clients as a cash flow. But the fundamental point why we got into business was felt more. So why do we have to create any privacy at all? Perhaps in an ideal world, all businesses worked differently, but together.

Connection and wars

Some of us even create arguments or Wars experience some sense of "victory" or supposedly a greater sense of security and meaning. But ironically, this rebounds. At the time that 'winning' the battle, we are actually more disconnected from others. Now we have more security to protect us from being attacked by others. Somehow become more insecure and afraid. We can not laugh at this because it really happens to almost every one of us in different ways.

It may be the arguments we have with those around us. It may be the negative view we do when we find something or someone is wrong. When we try to be the one to win, we can never win in the true path, we feel disconnected. We can only truly celebrate victory with others when we win together. Then we feel connected.

No matter how different we express our needs, everything we do is to comply with the mere desire we have to feel and stay connected.

The real sense of connection comes only through our hearts. We can connect with anybody when we truly care for them and feel connected to them. If you know this, create the desired state is really simple, easy and fun. Then, of course, to experience more happiness and joy.

Life is like a game. We experience things and do things in a game, but fundamentally, the goal of any game is to enjoy. It is not about doing things or having things. When the game ends, finally, winners are only those who enjoyed the game. Not those in the end. The results and the results of a game we play do not affect our real life. But if we have lost all our friends to play with during a game just because I wanted to be the winner of this round, which will lead us to win the game for real?

It's so easy to understand this in the example of a game, but are often blind to our own daily game called life. We forget so easily that it is also just a game.

Even if we do not know when the game actually started, and when it would end, that somehow we started in the past and will end someday. When we close the lid of the game box then one day, we simply say, "Wow, that was so funny. Let's play again time! "

In this game called life, the goal of the game is to "connect." We can maintain the connection until all become one. It is the only way to be continuously connected to our sense of purpose of happiness and joy. We can not be disconnected to anything or to deny and judge a thing, even if we achieve the total online status.

Life is as simple as that. There is only one secret.

And the trick is to connect.

For become one.

To enjoy.

About the Author

Masami Sato is an International Speaker, Serial Entrepreneur, Founder of Buy1GIVE1, and the Best-Selling Author of JOY and ONE. Masami is VERY different. She brings a new, almost upside-down strategy to everything she does. And she radiates it magically through her writing and speaking. Visit b1g1.com to learn more about Masami and Buy1GIVE1 which partners businesses with charities.

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