Happiness This Way

Can you survive a daily list of arguments?

My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and a half now, and about six months ago, began to argue constantly. Almost every day we have HUGE arguments and always blame each other for everything. Undersatnd if we just do not love each other so much (I know that I love him very much and he too) why not discuss much? We both love to get married and have great jobs and raise a family, but what we have a chance to be happy in the future if we argue like cats and dogs today? I'm looking for someone who has gone through what im going through and really found happiness and today has a marriage happy, despite recent rocky had.

Of course, Ruby, but you have to figure out the main one or two things are causing the arguments. Such every time one of you speak with a family member or friend to some, it happens. See for yourself. Then two need to sit down and talk. Start with something as, "I love you. I do not want to support us. This is what might be happening." Blaming each other is not helping others, just means that both are on the defensive and all that is triggering the fight has to be looked at. You sound like a very loving woman and I am sure loves you too. It appears that It's like shooting something, and partly a matter of control. You fix it and probably rarely discussed later. I know someone who has been married eight and she told me before marriage, they fought like cats and dogs. Now it is calm and happy in, and an argument is rare and quickly again. Good luck, and God bless you both.

Whisper 3 – Finding happiness in everyday life