Happiness This Way

Can the mother of my child and I still be a loving family for our son?

My fiance and I did love eachother at one point, I still love her, and i know she still loves me, however, she is living with her mother, who has manipulated her into thinking that I do not belong in our child’s life what so ever, basically everytime i speak with my fiance, there is positive energy, happiness, and every time i speak with her mom, she says that my fiance wants nothign to do with me, so that’s wehre that idea is coming from, I am taking this to court for custody and visitation, can I ask the court to require both of us to attend joint parenting classes? or like a Ex- family-counseling kind of thing. because I think that if a court appointed third party can say that I have good intentions with our son, then they can overcoem her mother, and we can be a family on our own,… Am I just being wishy washy? or is this something in the realm of possibility?

I don’t think you’re being wishy washy at all. Personally I think what you have to do is talk to your fiancee away from her mother and find out how she truly feels.

If she loves you then she needs to stand up to her mother – flat out. Sounds like the mother is the one farking around with your chance for a relationship with your fiancee.

As for your question, regardless of whether you and your fiancee are together or not, you can be a good family!! Do right by your child and maintain a good relationship with both your child and your fiancee and you will

Good luck!

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